Motherhood Monday

My Black is Beautiful: Learning to Love the Skin I’m In. #BIAJourney #MotherhoodMonday

Screen Shot 2014-06-29 at 8.21.49 PMIt’s almost that time! It’s almost time for this Mommy to head to New Orleans and attend my first Essence Festival! I am so excited to be able to experience this trip with my BFF, Aseelah. This is also her first time too! It’s the 20th year celebration of the Essence Festival and Prince is the headliner. Can you say, “Good times, nothing but good times!”

My Great News: What I am equally excited about is that I have been selected as a My Black is Beautiful (MBIB) Social Media Correspondent on behalf of Niche Parent Network & Conference!!

“My Black is Beautiful is a community of black women that celebrates everything that makes them beautiful.”

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I really learned to love the skin in I am when I went to college. I don’t remember the defining moment, but I just finally realized that I was pretty just the way I was. When I was younger, I didn’t have an issue with color until my mother told me, “You are jealous of your brother because is light skin!” I never thought that I was, but then started to wonder, “Am I?” 

My mother and brother were both lighter than myself. I found myself wishing I was their color more and more after she repeatedly made that statement. I even found myself liking only light boys as I grew older. All that changed when I went to college. I went to Alabama State University, and HBCU where there were gorgeous shades of all different colors (of  black) from all different states. We were all so different and it taught me to appreciate who I am.

I no longer looked at my skin color and wished I was something I wasn’t. I am beautiful just the way I am.

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Please follow along with our Essence Festival Digital Journey (along with the other 5 Social Media Correspondents) at the hashtag #BIAJourney and come back and visit the blog next week! 

Join the My Black is Beautiful Twitter Party 7/2  8:00-9:30 PM to discuss what beauty means inside and out! Attendees can win one of several Visa Gift Cards! I hope to see you there! We’ll be chatting about what it means to define your own definition of beauty and giving away prizes. RSVP at to be eligble for prizes

“I am a Niche Parent Network & Conference influencer and received compensation for this post and to attend Essence Festival as a My Black is Beautiful Social Media Correspondent. All opinions are my own.”



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  • Yolanda @ Seeing It Their Way
    June 30, 2014 at 10:09 am

    Congrats chica!

  • MJ
    June 30, 2014 at 11:06 am

    Congratulations! How exciting. Can’t wait to read all about your beautiful journey!

  • Bobbie
    June 30, 2014 at 2:25 pm

    Bernetta, you are doing the damn thang. Congrats again, lady! 🙂

  • Tami
    July 2, 2014 at 9:26 am

    Congrats can’t wait to see yah there!

  • Tami
    July 2, 2014 at 9:27 am

    Congrats hope to see you there!

  • Tori | Glasses and Glitter
    July 3, 2014 at 11:51 am

    Have fun girlfriend! I’m jealous!