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I had heard of pregnancy brain with my other two children but I really don’t believe it affected me. If it did, I can’t remember!! This pregnancy seems to be different. I hate to blame of all my forgetfulness on my pregnancy but I am not sure what else it could be. My husband hates that I am blaming it on “Pregnancy Brain!” He just says, “Ok, whatever! Stop it!”
I have to ask him things 2 and 3 times. I have even started telling him, “Look, you might have to tell me again in a few minutes!” Also, it seems that I get things backwards sometimes. For example, I might call someone the wrong name or just have to sit a process the information for a little while.
So, just to make sure I wasn’t just me – I took a look over at WebMD, my trusted source.
Pregnancy Brain Is Real, but…
Pregnancy does not change a woman’s brain even though some women don’t feel as sharp as usual when they’re pregnant. Helen Christensen, PhD, of The Australian National University, says, “If you read pregnancy manuals and listen to pregnant mothers — yes, there is such a thing as pregnancy brain or momnesia. And there is also evidence from research showing deficits in memory.”
But, she adds, “the evidence from our study shows that the capacity of the brain is unaltered in pregnancy.”
What Causes “Momnesia?”
It’s 100% normal to have memory lapses or be forgetful when you’re busy, stressed, or short on sleep, Christenson says. Jane Martin, MD, director of the Neuropsychological Testing and Evaluation Center at New York’s Mount Sinai Medical Center, agrees. “When you are not getting enough sleep and are multitasking, nobody’s memory is good,” she says. “You are not cognitively sharp when you haven’t slept well.” Surging hormone levels and new priorities may help explain why pregnancy brain happens.
“There is 15 to 40 times more progesterone and estrogen marinating the brain during pregnancy,” Louann Brizendine, MD, director of the Women’s Mood and Hormone Clinic at the University of California, San Francisco, says. “And these hormones affect all kinds of neurons in the brain. By the time the woman delivers, there are huge surges of oxytocin that cause the uterus to contract and the body to produce milk — and they also affect the brain circuits.”
Pregnancy also shuffles what gets your attention. Your IQ doesn’t change, but your priorities do.
“You only have so many shelves in your brain, so the top three are filled with baby stuff,” Brizendine says. Hormones may also affect spatial memory — which includes remembering where things are — in pregnant women and new moms, a British study shows.
What Pregnancy Brain Feels Like
Pregnancy brain is “the feeling of walking into a room, going after something, and not remembering what you went for about five to 10 times a day,” Brizendine says. There may also be an evolutionary aspect to it. Women’s health expert Donnica Moore, MD, says, “It has been postulated that, from an evolutionary standpoint, this memory impairment may be helpful so that women will forget about other stuff and focus on caring for the child.” Many pregnant women and new moms spend a lot of time thinking about the changes that having a baby will bring or taking care of their newborn. As a result, their short-term memory may suffer.
Did you ever suffer from “Pregnancy Brain?”
Lindsay ChungDecember 24, 2012 at 1:30 pm
I’m pretty sure my “pregnancy brain” stuck with me long after I had my kids. I haven’t had a memory since!
Alisha LAMPLEYDecember 24, 2012 at 5:42 pm
B I remember with my first pregnancy I set off the alarm at work and could not for the life of me remember the code. So I sat there like a big dummy and told the officers I was preggo when they arrived! And we never get those precious brain cells back. It’s like they just vanish into thin air…LOL
BernettaDecember 30, 2012 at 4:06 am
That is too funny Alisha!!!!!! But please don’t say we don’t get them back!!
Katherine PhillipsDecember 25, 2012 at 1:46 am
I definitely experienced it with both my kids. I still forget things sometimes I call it mom brain.
DaenelTDecember 28, 2012 at 3:58 am
All. The. Time. I still have it. Fifteen years later. LOL My family now texts me or adds stuff to my calendar that I need to remember.
BernettaDecember 30, 2012 at 4:06 am
OMG!!! I hate it!
Joyce BrewerDecember 30, 2012 at 4:12 pm
Mine has developed from pregnancy brain to full fledged mommy brain.
I did a video blog about the 4 Funny Signs I Had Mommy Brain.
Watch it and have a laugh – http://bit.ly/4funnymommybr