I pulled this post from waaay back but thought the topic was interesting!!

Remember SEX in the CITY II?

There were alot of things I related to in the movie as a WIFE and mother (which is another reason why I liked it. Kinda wished hubby was there too!) But today we aren’t talking about those topics! We are talking about the KISS! In the movie, Carrie saw her ex-boyfriend Aidan, fiance, love whatever – while she was on a girls trip to Abu Dhabi. He wanted to go to dinner with her, to catch up. She agreed because she wanted to catch up too. You could also see in his eyes that it was a part of him that never really got over her too. While they were at dinner, they both talked about their marriages, kids, present, past and future. Aidan did admit that she still looked amazing and he can’t deny that. The date was over and they started to walk back to somewhere (not even sure where they were going!). But as they were walking back, they were talking about their surrounding and Abu Dhabi – then BAM!!!! Aidan stops, grabs her face and goes in. He kisses her like he really missed her! She kisses him back. They kiss for a good 30 seconds! They both kind of pull away at the same time. Then she gasp, like “Ah uh oh!!” and he gasp like, “OMG, I’m sorry! I shouldn’t have done that!” And she agrees and runs away! In the movie she doesn’t see him again. She is literally out of her mind over this kiss! She run and calls all the girls together and tells them what happened and wants to call BIG (the hubby) and tell him right away!

Two of her friends said they are really not sure what she should do? Samantha’s character said, “Don’t tell him. And if you feel you want to right now, at least sleep on it!” Carrie didn’t want to have secrets – so she told him. It’s so ironic because right after she told him, she said, “I should have never told him!” I am not going to go into what happened in the end of the movie – go check it out. BUT BUT BUT… if the same thing had happened to you, would you have called the hubby up and said, “Ummmm, I was having dinner with an EX and he kissed me!! It meant nothing!” Would you? Should you? Why? Would your husband tell you? Would your husband even tell you if another lady hit on him? The consensus at the table was NO. No because she didn’t kiss him (even though she didn’t pull away for 30 seconds), he did kiss her. And she did leave right away! She wasn’t asking for it or even trying to take it there. Nothing else happened and it was obvious that nothing more was going to happen. Is it worth getting your husband upset for something you didn’t start and plan to let happen again? Just asking. Sooooooooo what would you do?



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    Erin J.
    November 8, 2012 at 7:28 pm

    This is so funny because the same thing happened to me. I hadn’t saw my ex-fiance in years, but we kept in touch. I came to town and we went out to dinner. On the way back to the car we stopped and just talked. All of a sudden it was wierd silence, and he just leaned in and kissed me. We both are married. It was an amazing kiss and no I didn’t tell.

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    Your Unexpected Beauty (Yolanda)
    November 8, 2012 at 7:31 pm

    I think she was asking for it with her egyptian make up and exposed side thigh. LOL But too answer your question I probably would tell him because I have a very guilty conscious and would tell him just to make me feel better although it may hurt him. Logically I know it’s dumb, but I don’t always do the logical thing.

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      November 8, 2012 at 8:43 pm

      LOL @ exposed thigh!!

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    Rochelle Sodipo Washington
    November 8, 2012 at 7:53 pm

    It would be nothing to tell because if i knew in my heart that I never got over my ex..I wouldn’t agree to an outing. If I DID do it though, I would tell. Full disclosure.

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    November 8, 2012 at 10:23 pm

    I would never agree to meet one of my ex because I know their are feelings there. That’s asking for trouble. My hubs is a don’t care type of dude so I don’t think it would matter if I told him or not.

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    Marie Young
    November 9, 2012 at 10:31 pm

    I would spill the beans! One thing I cant live with is a guilty conscious!


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    Katherine Phillips
    November 12, 2012 at 6:50 pm

    I wouldn’t meet up with an old flame without my husband but if by chance it did happen and he so happened to kiss me I would definitely tell my husband.

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